Widely recognized in the adult entertainment industry, Riley Reid has opened up about her life and career through social media and podcast appearances. In a recent candid conversation, she revealed the one key piece of advice she believes every man should follow in the bedroom.
At 33, Riley Reid has gained a loyal following not just for her success in the adult industry, but also for her candidness on podcasts where she openly discusses both personal experiences and industry challenges. With more than 2.1 million Instagram followers and a long list of accolades, Reid—born Ashley Matthews—has become a recognizable name well beyond adult entertainment.
Reid opened up about a painful experience with an ex who refused to kiss her after work, leaving her feeling “like a disgusting person.” She recalled, “I’m not disgusting! It’s harsh. It was so horrible when he told me that.” Moments like these made her question whether love was truly possible while staying in the industry. On the Impaulsive podcast, she also spoke about facing ultimatums from partners, sharing: “I’ve dated guys who said, ‘It’s me or porn,’ and I thought—porn never gave me an ultimatum, so I chose that.”
Reflecting on the toll her career has taken, Reid has been candid about how it has affected her personal life—particularly her relationship with her family. In a resurfaced clip on X (formerly Twitter), she shared: “When people ask if they should do porn, I usually say no. It makes life really hard—dating, family, intimacy. You have to be okay with being shamed every day of your life.” These challenges have contributed to a strained relationship with both her mother and father, which she attributes to a lack of acceptance and conflicting boundaries over her career choices.
Recently, Reid revealed that while she hasn’t completely stepped away from the adult industry, she has made the decision to stop filming boy-girl scenes—once a major part of her early career. Speaking on Jordyn Jones’ What They Don’t Tell You podcast, she opened up about how fame has complicated her dating life, noting that many potential partners saw her as ‘Riley’ before ever getting to know the real her, Ashley Matthews.
“I didn’t retire, but I stopped filming boy-girl scenes… It was a personal choice,” Reid shared. “I made that decision because I was feeling lonely—I wanted love, affection, and connection.” She’s not alone in speaking out about the emotional toll of the industry. Other former adult film stars, including Lana Rhoades and Mia Khalifa, have also publicly reflected on how their careers have impacted their personal lives.
